When you’re looking to spice things up in the bedroom, you might flip through 5 Hot Sex Positions That Should Be On Your Bucket List, or see what’s new in sex toys department.
But there’s another place to look: Your childhood.
We’re talking about going back to the days of carefree play, when activities like pillow fights, truth or dare, Twister, and tag ruled your world.
“Childlike play . . . brings excitement to the relationship, relieves stress and boredom, and builds intimacy,” says sex therapist Nan Wise, Ph.D. “I’m talking about that rough-and-tumble play, like wrestling, running around like kids, playing games like touch football, or tag, or Twister.”