Want to let her have maximum pleasure for minimal effort? There’s a sex position for that (and a whole lot more!)
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2 / 11 She wants you to be able to see her whole bodyRead more
Try: The Woman-on-Top
In this position, you will have a glorious, full-frontal view of her body and be able to grab a hold of her butt and control the speed of your lovemaking. Plus, you’ll be able to see each other’s facial expressions.
Simply lie on your back and get her to straddle you. She can remain in a kneeling position or, if she prefers, she can squat (whatever feels most comfortable). If she gets tired – and to get an even better view of her intimate parts – ask her to lean back, resting her hands on your knees as you move in and out of her.
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Try: The Seashell
Think of this as the spiced-up version of the Missionary position. Once you have penetrated her, get her to spread her legs as wide as she can, bending her knees and dangling them over your arms.
With her vulva exposed, she can easily reach down to pleasure herself manually. Bonus: This position also allows for deeper penetration, so you’ll double your pleasure!
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Try: Standing Doggy-Style
Like the idea of getting dirty together in the shower? This position is easy to get into when you’re all soaped up and slippery.
Get her to rest her palms against the shower wall, keeping her body at a 45-degree angle and bending her knees slightly. If you have a shower rail or something to hold on to for extra stability, that’s even better. Now you can enter her from behind.
5 / 11 She wants to feel completely in charge during sexRead more
Try: Sexy Scissoring
Let her get into the Woman-on-Top position, but make sure she leans back, resting her hands in between your legs. Her back should be arched.
In this position, she’ll not only be giving you a fabulous view of her body and face, she’ll also be able to rotate her hips and “grind” down onto your penis, and control the pace and the depth of penetration.
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Try: Sensual spooning
Get her to lie on her side with you behind her. You should also be on your side. Now lift her upper leg so that you can enter her easily. She may have to push her butt towards you to ensure a perfect, snug fit. Next, get her to bend her upper leg knee slightly and rest her foot on the bed, forming a triangle.
In this position you’ll both find it easier to move. While you are thrusting in and out of her, have her guide your hand towards her clitoris or her breasts – wherever she wants to be touched.
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Try: The Coital Alignment Technique (CAT)
This take on the missionary position is perfect if she can only orgasm through clitoral stimulation, as it’s designed to maximise friction between the base of the penis and the clitoris.
Once she’s in the missionary position, slide your body upwards against hers, so that her jaw is touching your shoulder. You should rest your upper body on your elbows.
Now, instead of thrusting in and out, you should gently rock your body back and forth, making sure your torso is pressed closely against her body and the base of your penis or pubic bone is rubbing against her clitoris.
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Try: The Face-Off
This position is intimate as it allows for eye contact between you and your partner and keeps your hands free so that you can explore each other’s bodies. Sit on a chair or the edge of the bed. Now get her to sit on your lap facing you.
From here, she can control the angle and depth of the entry and thrust. She’ll also be face-to-face with you, so feel free to kiss passionately, whisper into each other’s ears, and play with her hair.
9 / 11 She wants you to have a great view of her buttRead more
Try: The Reverse Cowgirl
If you can’t get enough of her round and perky butt, this is the perfect sex position for you. It’s like the Woman-on-Top but instead of her facing you, get her to turn her body around so that she’s facing your feet.
Whether she squats or kneels, you will get an up-close view of her bottom while she “rides” you.
10 / 11 She wants to experience deep penetrationRead more
Try: Doggy Style
This position is a favourite of many women for the simple reason that it allows for deep penetration and stimulates the G-spot (that fleshy, sensitive area on the inner front wall of the vagina).
To pull this one off, get her to go on all fours. She can rest her upper body on her elbows if she wants, or rest her palms on the bedhead or wall to steady herself. Now kneel behind her and enter her from this position. As you thrust in and out of her, you can steady yourself by holding onto her waist or buttocks.
11 / 11 You want a sexy, passionate quickieRead more
Try: The Pick-Me-Up
This position is super-hot, sexy and intense, and just the thing when you’re both horny and in a hurry to make love.
Lean against the wall and pick her up. Get her to wrap her legs around your waist as tightly as she can while she bounces her buttocks up and down and you thrust in and out of her.
In this position, she’ll get deep vaginal penetration and clitoral stimulation at the same time.
A version of this article first appeared on Her World.