SEX & WOMEN

5 Ways To Sext Your Girlfriend To Turn Her On

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    Think sexting is cringeworthy? Not if you do it right. Sending sexy texts can spice things up and do your relationship some good. (How does it compare to a quickie though?)

    “Your teasing can help build up suspense and lead to hot in-person sex,” says Dr Martha Lee, a sexologist at Eros Coaching. “Also, it removes some of the embarrassment you might otherwise feel face-to-face. It keeps you on your toes and helps you think of new things to say, and new ways to respond.”

    Just keep in mind that it isn’t a good idea to do with someone you just got to know.

    “Sexting cannot be used as a way to pick up a partner,” she emphasises.

    Want to start getting extra playful on your phone (or any digital device for that matter) to get him all hot and bothered? Here are five sexting tips from Dr Lee.

    Why Sexting Can Give You A Better Sex Life

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  • Start slow
    2 / 6 Start slow

    “Start out slow. Say something like ‘I’m thinking of you’ or ‘I wish you were home already’. Then start to get a little bit naughty. You can drop hints of the possibility of a sexy evening together or suggest a certain sexual act.”

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  • Don't show everything
    3 / 6 Don't show everything

    “You can send a picture of a random but somewhat erogenous part of your body. And you don’t always have to include your face.” (Not sure how to take a sexy selfie? We’ve got you covered.)

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  • Be specific
    4 / 6 Be specific

    “You can also tell your partner about a body part of theirs you wish you could touch. Or tell them about something you’ve seen or read about that made you think of them.”

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  • Switch things up
    5 / 6 Switch things up

    “You can also leave a voice message telling them how you can’t wait to see them, and what you’re doing to prepare for their return home.”

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  • Keep it going
    6 / 6 Keep it going

    “If you sext throughout the day, by the time you make it home, the both of you will likely be all ready to sneak a quickie before dinner.”

    By Adora Wong for CLEO

    Seduction Strategies Hotter Than Sexting

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