SEX & WOMEN

12 Singaporean Women Share What Good Sex Is For Them

  • Estrella Wong, 40, stay-at-home mum, married for five years
    1 / 12 Estrella Wong, 40, stay-at-home mum, married for five years

    “Great sex is giving every part of myself to my man and showing what I feel for him in my own unique way. Also, to have him do the same with me.”

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  • Tanya*, 30, retail manager, married for six years
    2 / 12 Tanya*, 30, retail manager, married for six years

    “Good sex, to me, is what happens right after my husband and I make love. We cuddle and listen to each other’s heartbeats in the silence of the night.”

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  • Marie-Ann Chee, 38, private tutor, married for four years
    3 / 12 Marie-Ann Chee, 38, private tutor, married for four years

    “Sex is best when my hubby and I tune out the rest of the world. We focus on each other, and open ourselves up to each other. Knowing that the man I love accepts me completely is such an intimate experience.”

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  • Carmen Tang, 37, corporate events manager, married for three years
    4 / 12 Carmen Tang, 37, corporate events manager, married for three years

    “An amazing sex session is one in which my husband and I communicate our love for each other simply by looking into each other’s eyes. Even if the sex is rough or fast, when we’re looking at each other with intensity, it feels so soft, romantic and tender.”

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  • San Lee, 34, HR executive, married for six years
    5 / 12 San Lee, 34, HR executive, married for six years

    “What makes sex ultra-special for me is when my husband gives himself to me with complete abandon. It’s like he’s saying, ‘Here is all of me, the real me, and I trust you with all my heart’. ”

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  • Angie*, 34, freelance writer, married for one year
    6 / 12 Angie*, 34, freelance writer, married for one year

    “Good sex is like an intimate conversation between our bodies.”

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  • Serafina Ng, 37, office manager, married for five years
    7 / 12 Serafina Ng, 37, office manager, married for five years

    “The best sex I’ve ever had with my husband was when we went at it all night. Our goal was not to have one orgasm after another. Instead, we wanted to fully experience each other and let our feelings of love guide us. We could hardly speak because we were so out of breath, and our bodies were so in sync. That physical closeness was indescribable, but the emotional connection was even more amazing. I felt so safe, I didn’t want it to end.”

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  • Calista*, 29, lab technician, married for one year
    8 / 12 Calista*, 29, lab technician, married for one year

    “It’s the coming together of our hearts, minds and bodies, and it’s especially wonderful when we surrender ourselves wholly to each other. It feels so good to be in that position of vulnerability and trust.”

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  • Jennie*, 29, corporate communications executive, married for one year
    9 / 12 Jennie*, 29, corporate communications executive, married for one year

    “I love it when he tells me how much he loves me – before, during and after we have sex. It brings out his honesty and the purity of our feelings.”

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  • Bianca*, 30, early childhood educator, married for three years
    10 / 12 Bianca*, 30, early childhood educator, married for three years

    “Good sex is like an emotional balm. It’s an opportunity for my husband and me to forgive and forget the little hurts we’ve caused each other that day or week. And a way for us to renew our love, and let each other know that everything is going to be okay between us.”

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  • Sharon*, 40, self-employed, married for 10 years
    11 / 12 Sharon*, 40, self-employed, married for 10 years

    “Being overwhelmed by love is the hallmark of good, satisfying sex. Sometimes, I am so overcome by my feelings for my husband that I want to cry after we make love because I know our love is such a solid and beautiful gift.”

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  • Kiren Kaur, 28, post-graduate student, married for three years
    12 / 12 Kiren Kaur, 28, post-graduate student, married for three years

    “Good sex is basking in my husband’s attention, and relishing the love he shows me through his beautiful kisses, soft caresses and tender stares.”

    This story was first published in Simply Her magazine March 2013 issue.

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