Close the camera: Women aren’t as keen on your sexts as you think they are, finds research from Indiana University-Purdue University of Fort Wayne.
Among the 93 women included in the study, a majority admitted to engaging in consensual sexting even though they weren’t feeling it. Their justification: wanting to fulfill their partner’s needs and be flirtatious. Unless you’re in a long-distance relationship—a situation that necessitates a little digital foreplay—you’re better off leaving the crotch-shots to the skeezy politicians.
Instead, try these 10 ways to keep things hot—without resorting to your iPhone.