Try these: (a) Breathe in deeply when you climax, so your orgasm becomes more of a full-body experience; (b) instead of tensing up and holding still during orgasm, move your body and let the energy spread throughout; (c) experiment and prolong the period before orgasm; (d) try to build better orgasms by doing your Kegel exercises; (e) use sex toys; or (f) fantasise. However, as long as you’re satisfied with the intensity, don’t compare it with others’.