Instead of making time for sex (not always possible), try creating and sustaining the mood for it. That way, when the baby decides to suddenly take a siesta, you can get straight down to it without spending too much time getting your motors up and running. Keep the flirting going through conversation, SMS or naughty post-its. Sneak into the shower together or treat her to a nice body massage. Ironically, the best thing you can do to keep things hot is to help with the chores. Seriously! If a woman isn’t overwhelmed by mothering duties, there’s a greater chance she’ll use her freed-up energy to show her deepest (pun intended) appreciation.