It’s simple science: Women take longer to become aroused. So if you’re looking to get lucky later in the evening, start by piquing her interest early.
How? Sext her. (No, seriously.) “Sexting can be extremely hot for a woman,” says Dr. Ava Cadell, founder of Loveology University.
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Women are much more auditory than men, she explains. So reading something sexy—like how badly you crave her taste—will only plant the seed of anticipation in her head.