8 Hottest Sex Tips Of 2016

  • 1. Find Her Erogenous Zones
    1 / 8 1. Find Her Erogenous Zones

    Gently touch, tap, stroke, kiss, suck or bite her nape, says Christina Spaccavento, a sex therapist and relationship counsellor based in Sydney, Australia.

    You may also find it erotic when he massages your scalp firmly or tugs your hair. Not everyone will feel the same sort of pleasure.

    Some may find it relaxing, while others may feel sexually aroused and may even have an orgasm from just having their nape kissed or hair pulled.

    Other moves include licking and stroking her tailbone.

    Related: 16 Sex Tips For Touching Her Vagina

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  • 2. Get Flexible
    2 / 8 2. Get Flexible

    If you aren’t a gymnast by training, some sex moves can be a bit too much for your body to handle.

    Spare yourself the strain by learning some simple yoga stretches. Over time, they’ll help you develop stronger and leaner muscles for hotter, more satisfying sex.  

    Related: How Yoga Can Strengthen Your Sperm

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  • 3. Try This Sex Position
    3 / 8 3. Try This Sex Position

    The C.A.T. (Coital Alignment Technique)

    What it is: Get into the missionary position, but have your wife spread her legs slightly wider apart. Once you’re inside her, slide your body upwards, towards her head, so that her jaw is just touching your shoulder. Your pelvis should be aligned with hers, and your hips, pushed downward. From here, move in a slow rocking motion. 

    Related: 11 Ways To Improve Your Sex Life

    Why it works: Most women cannot climax without clitoral stimulation, and this more sensual version of the missionary position addresses that problem. It is also a proven and effective way for both of you to orgasm simultaneously. 



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  • 4. Balance Your Sex Drive With Hers
    4 / 8 4. Balance Your Sex Drive With Hers

    Not every couple is completely in sync with one another, particularly when it comes to their sex drive. It’s important to talk about differences with your partner and seek ways to resolve them.

    Here’s a tip: Touch affectionately, but without it leading to sex.

    Women have a strong need for affection without sexual overtones, so it can be a turn off when their partners only touch them when they want sex.

    Bringing back non-sexual cuddles and kisses can help spark intimacy again.

    Related: Turn Her On In Less Than 2 Minutes



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  • 5. Climax Together
    5 / 8 5. Climax Together

    Climaxing at the same time – impossible? Perhaps not.

    It’s certainly uncommon in real life, say sex experts we consulted. So don’t fret if your lovemaking doesn’t seem to match those onscreen scenes. “It’s the exception rather than the rule for most couples,” says Dr Calvin Fones, consultant psychiatrist at Gleneagles Medical Centre.

    One helpful tip is to practise the woman-on-top method.

    Being on top gives you both easy access to your clitoris. When you’re nearing orgasm, you simply need to speed up, which can bring him to his own climax.

    Related: 10 Ways You Can Give Her An Explosive Orgasm

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  • 6. Wake Up To Great Sex
    6 / 8 6. Wake Up To Great Sex

    A man’s testosterone levels peak in the morning. This, combined with nocturnal penile tumescence (NPT) – also known as morning wood – makes morning a great time to have sex. 

    Related: The Secret To Great Morning Sex (And How To Start It)

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  • 7. Learn From Literature
    7 / 8 7. Learn From Literature

    Reading is good for you. It’s good for your sex life too. The sex experts share the great lessons they’ve learnt from erotica and self-help books, such as the one below.


    Make the first move; don’t just wait for him to initiate sex. Also, a bold display of power will turn him on as it appeals to his instinctive desire to be taken care of. And when a woman takes charge, there’s an interesting shift in dynamics that may even increase her libido.

    From The Great Lover Playbook: 365 Sexual Tips and Techniques to Keep the Fires Burning All Year Long by Lou Paget

    This is well organised and fun to read, and has plenty of tips to help couples reach deeper levels of intimacy by learning how to really please each other.

    – Dr Martha Stanley, sexpert for

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  • 8. Hop Into The Shower
    8 / 8 8. Hop Into The Shower

    A playful romp in the shower can be a great way to spice of your sex life.

    Water also acts as the perfect lubricant and may make penetration easier. Clinical sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching shares one of the best moves for great shower sex – doggie style.

    There are many surfaces of different heights you can work with in the bathroom.  These will aid you in positioning yourself for maximum pleasure.

    Martha says, “Ask her to prop one foot up on the edge of the bath tub or toilet bowl, and then have her bend forward with her palms against a wall for stability. You can then lift one leg a bit higher as you enter her. Hold her hips so that you can penetrate more deeply.”



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