How to Receive a Blowjob

It’s one of life’s greatest pleasures, but receiving a bad blowjob or simply not getting enough will leave you frustrated. But getting the quality and quantity you want means making some effort yourself, rather than just lying back and waiting for your wife to bob for your apples. Sex and relationships expert Tracey Cox tells you how to get, uh, blown away.

It’s A Treat, Not A Chore
So behave that way. If you treat the whole thing like it’s a huge favour, she’ll be far more willing to do it again and again. Cox says: “It sounds obvious, but make it obvious how great it is. Underline this when she’s going down on you, by being as excited about it as possible. The best oral is offered enthusiastically – not asked for and delivered begrudgingly.”

Don’t Believe Everything You See In Porn
Forget watching porn; it’s totally misleading. But if you’re a knucklehead who has done so, know this: Girls in films deep throat everyone. But this doesn’t happen in real life, just as normal guys don’t suck hard on the clitoris and pull on it like they’re chewing gum. Do that in real life and you’ll never see her genitals up close and personal again. (Or her, for that matter.)

Make Sure Your Bits Are Lick-able
“Take regular showers and keep your pubic hair under control,” advises Cox. “While we’re on the topic of hair, please shave your face before going down on us. Your stubble’s sexy to look at – but not so sexy when it’s scraping a layer of skin off our thighs.”

Instruct Her
No, not by forcing her head down there. Suck her finger to show what you like and she’ll be raring to try out what she has learnt. Instruct; don’t order. And be tactful. “Stop that now – I hate it!” will not put you on the path to receiving regular blowjobs. “That feels great” or “I liked the other way better” will yield a much more positive response.

Hold Her Hands
When your girl starts giving you oral sex, take her hands off your thighs and hold them with yours (she’ll like that). Then guide her hands to your member so that they form a tube around it. This will boost her confidence – and your pleasure.

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