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Will cybersex hurt my relationship?

I’ll answer you by asking a question back. Would it upset you if you found out your partner was doing it? If your partner is not kept in the dark and considers it harmless, then type yourself off. But why swap virtual exploits for the real deal? The excitement can be a draw, but when things get intense, sometimes one party can push for a meeting. Are you prepared to decline? Many people think it constitutes cheating, but I take a more liberal stand. If she knows and you transmit the excitement to her benefit in bed, that’s great. But if it begins to replace or interfere with intimate relationships, then buddy, you’ve got bigger problems ahead.